Really appreciate any help as going round in circles!
DD 16, Yr 11, is an adopted child with ADHD, Mixed Mood and Anxiety Disorder, ASD difficulties (no official diagnosis but stated on her ADHD report) self harming & under Connect (part of CAMHS for adopted kids/ kids in care).
She has been falling apart since Senior School, we moved schools a year ago to start afresh but it didn’t work, her anxiety difficulties resulted in her attendance dropping and now she is at home permanently having only managed the first 2 weeks of school in September.
She will not set foot in school again and so whatever accommodations they now offer (so late in the day!) are worthless. The school is an independent which doesn’t help as they are not really accountable to the local authority.
We are paying for private tutors to come to our home to cover 4 subjects, mainly core but most worrying now is that I need for her to have somewhere to sit the exams. The school are willing to have her sit there even if she is off roll but she won’t entertain the idea! She seems more receptive however to going into a school/college which is unknown to her and she is unknown to them.
My options, I think are:
have her sit them at home ( but the school are looking blankly at me whenever I mention this, like it never happens? and I would need them to advocate for us) so without their help I don’t think I alone could make it happen
contact other local schools, probably independent ones and pay for her to sit as an external candidate, however, the most likely one is at least an hour away, not great for my daughter really
contact our local authority admissions and try to get her on roll at a mainstream school to sit them there, but would they put her on roll knowing that she probably won’t go into the school until exam day!
Any advice on my best option?
Thank you so much, very worried Mum