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SEN classroom?

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Justchattingaboutthings · 12/10/2023 22:23

School have suggested that my child would benefit from learning in their "SEN classroom" for his morning lessons. He's in Year 4 and he does struggle. Only able to read and write very basic things. Often misunderstands things that his friends seem to get easily. Can't remember times tables, even two times tables.

What should I think about the classroom? I'm worried that it could hold him back not being in class, but then maybe it'll help him with some of the things he finds hard.

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JimmyField · 13/10/2023 09:56

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YellowRosesWithRedTips · 13/10/2023 16:28

Ask whether their SEN classroom is taught be a teacher. What is the ratio of staff to pupils in the SEN classroom? Does DS have an EHCP? Is the SEN classroom a formal ARP (or whatever your LA calls them) or is it an internal support.

Justchattingaboutthings · 13/10/2023 18:09

Thank you both.

Those questions will be really helpful. I will write them down to take to my next meeting. DS doesn't have an EHCP, although I have talked to the SENCO in the past about whether he would be able to get one. He has been falling behind since Year 1 so we have had lots of meetings. I will ask again about an EHCP and whether it is needed or possible now.

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YellowRosesWithRedTips · 15/10/2023 10:23

You can request an EHCNA yourself. On their website, IPSEA has a model letter you can use.

JimmyField · 16/10/2023 09:40

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KaraB31785 · 17/10/2023 10:46

My son is 5 nearly 6 and we are in the early stages of a ADHD diagnosis.
He’s struggling a lot at school to concentrate and to do as he’s told he’s always on the move and super active.
there’s another boy in his class with ADHD and Autism and he’s constantly bothering my son to the point my son is crying about going to school and saying this boy is bothering him and hurting him.
I can sympathise with the boy as with my son it’s difficult for him to regulate his emotions I just don’t know what to do as it’s completely out of character for my son to be unhappy going to school.
The teacher is uninterested and just ignoring my messages.

Im starting to feel my son is in the wrong school he’s getting left out all the time no one invites him to party’s and he invites everyone to his I just feel so sad for him as he’s a lovely caring little boy and I feel he’s so miss understood.

YellowRosesWithRedTips · 17/10/2023 12:45

Kara you would be better starting your own thread. Have you spoken to the SENCO?

WhatsForDinner100 · 14/03/2024 09:55

If he's struggling with reading, I'd strongly recommend the Ladybird books, which you can buy online or in shops. They're from the 1970s, but the clear way that the books are laid out make reading so much easier than today's methods. It's largely based on visual recognition, rather than phonics. Once a child can read, who cares which method they used, so long as it works for them.

If he's full of beans, does he play enough sport? Football is important for boys to bond. It's a conversation starter for the rest of their lives.

You've got plenty of time at primary school to try to get to the bottom of what issues he has. Things gather pace at secondary school and that's when children sometimes get left behind in lower sets. My son used to go in to primary school early, as the SENCO were kind and spared him some extra time, although it did mean missing out on playing with his friends in the morning, but they didn't want to put him full time in SENCO and nor did I want that for him. He was upset that some of the other children thought that he was a slow learner, but the school didn't diagnose dyslexia. I spent as much time as possible, sitting with him chatting and if he was in the mood, just reading short books with him with my finger under the words for him to watch, but he tried to resist. We always chatted about what he was learning (I'd read what topics he was learning, then just chat about it, rather than asking "what did you do at school today?") That way he kept up with everything conceptually.

At secondary school though I finally paid for an ed psych report in Y9, which was over £400. They diagnosed dyslexia and he was given 25% extra time in exams and other support.

I do know of a couple of parents who took their children out of school at primary level, then sent them to secondary school. They integrated better when they were ready for it.

Good luck,

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