DD9 (Year 5) was assessed for ASD during lockdown years in 2021. Findings were: not autistic (but low self esteem, possibly some receptive language issues).
Two years later, social / friendship issues (one friend only, with ASD) / social confidence / communication issues continue, along with poor empathy, difficulty managing emotions, some lack of focus.
I have always suspected ADD (not ASD). Happy with not-autism diagnosis.
School SENCO agreed to refer for ADHD, but thought general paediatric referral the way forward, as social issues persist (she thought ASD, though knew about the previous assessment).
We have just had the referral turned down by local authority (they rung me and sent email) who say assessment already made and to return to GP for referral to complex neuro-disability clinic for 'second opinion'. I am not after a second opinion re ASD, only an ADHD one. But I don't know the way forward.
Please could any experienced soul out there help me out?! ☺️ I will go back to the SENCO but want to be informed, as it has been a slow process and it seems she went the slightly wrong route in July.
Who diagnoses ADHD in the NHS? Is it CAMHs? Another service? Not the autism clinic that I was referred to for a second time, it seems. I know waiting lists will be long.
If I get a private assessment, will the NHS accept it? If I do so, any recommendations of where to go in London? We also probably need an Ed Psych to consider slow processing, etc, too, perhaps, but I assumed those would be different assessments.
Any help or advice gratefully received. Thank you so much.