AccidentallySuckedTheStrippersDick ·
21/07/2023 09:48
Hey all, trying to help my DN, he's 7.5 and has speech delays but is coming on a treat with his taking and is even rather eloquent at times. He is currently on an ASD pathway. The main problem is that he's been failed terribly by school and we are currently awaiting an EHCP which should hopefully award him a C place in a special unit. We have pushed and pushed with school to get him a dyslexia assessment as his reading and writing is shocking. But the school are refusing and dragging their feet as basically they just want him gone from their school. We are at the point of paying for a private diagnosis but we are far from well off, my sister is his carer and £400-600 is a huge amount of money to her. It would mean putting it on a credit card and then paying it off over 12-24 months which would add interest etc.
To be clear. He can't reliably write own name. His letters are often back to front but he has a really great grasp of maths and can add/subtracts etc. He does his very best to spell phonetically but shows absolutely zero consistency. If your child has dyslexia, or you know about dyslexia, do you think it's worth pursuing this private diagnosis? I've attached some pictures of his very best work but we know he's very heavily "supported" in school and they often do his work for him which has created a kind of artificial level of abilities. He got 2/40 on his phonics test.