DS is 2.5 and started nursery 2 mornings a week a couple of months ago, he has developmental delays in social skills, language and play (basically his gross motor skills are age appropriate roughly but nothing else, been waiting on NHS SLT since October and paeds since December as HV team scored his asq se so high its likely he's on the ASD spectru).
He's doing well with the 1:4 ratio as far as I know so far but he ll be 3 in November and as he's preverbal with delayed understanding and nowhere near potty training, it feels like moving up to preschool with a 1:8 ratio may not be the best thing for him.
So I m wondering if I can ask nursery to hold off moving him whilst I m happy offering to sort the shortfall financially as I know the funding amount is different for 3 year olds, or whether they have to fulfil certain criteria to delay moving DS so it's not so simple?