My dyslexic son was studying for GCSEs in a mainstream school but was off-rolled last year, in Year 10. The Headteacher told him "if you can't write in every lesson, there is no point in being at school". So he was sent home from that day on. I found an alternative provision, which the LA funded through the EHCP, but my son has refused to go since Christmas 2022. Its a "special school", but my son is socially very mainstream, so he just didn't fit in at all. Many of his peers were non-verbal or had very severe mental health issues. We've had very little contact from school in recent months. They said they would send a mentor to our house last week to talk to my son about 16+ options, but no-one turned up and no-one called.
So now he's at the point where all his friends from school are fnishing GCSEs and looking forward to college. My son has nothing. There's no careers advice available from our council until he's Y12, which is too late for college applications. He can only enrol for "Entry Level" courses in college without GCSEs - these courses seem to be geared for people with learning disabilities. They are about basic life skills...etc, which just isn't what he needs at all.
He really wanted to do music at college, as he's a very talented drummer. He has played drums for 10 years and gets paid for gigs. He needs GCSE passes for the main music performance course, so entry to this is impossible, and he was told by the college that he's "too good" for the entry level music course. We are really very stuck, and there's NO HELP! We're completely on our own.
My fear is that he will just spend another year at home doing nothing. His mental health is good, he's not autistic, he's extremely bright and motivated. I've called our "Early Help" team and the SEN coordinator, with no joy. IF they return my calls (which is rare), they just shrug and tell me to go around the local colleges again.
Has anyone been here already? Any tips?