Hi everyone, I’m hoping someone has experience of this issue and can offer some advice.
My 6yo daughter has selective mutism which started when she joined reception year of primary school. Up to this point she had no issues and was a very chatty 4yo at nursery 3 days a week. Now in Year 1 she still has not spoken a word at school and the issue is spreading to other areas of her life. (First it was just school, later it extended to aunts/uncles/cousins, and more recently now she’s stopped speaking to grandparents). Mum and Dad are the only people she speaks freely to, but only when no one else can overhear.
She’s due to take her Year 1 phonics screening test in a few weeks and during mock tests she’s taken at home with me she’s passed each time. Despite her issues she is picking up reading/writing and maths exceptionally well.
The school were investigating whether she could take the test with me, instead of a teacher as obviously she will not speak to any teachers. They have had this request denied by the department of education twice (as they pushed back) and therefore she will now receive an automatic fail. My concern is whilst this test does not hold much weight, if her SM persists into the following school years, this issue will present itself time and time again. She will fail despite her abilities and she will begin to recognise this which will damage her confidence (which is already at rock bottom).
I feel this amounts to discrimination and a blanket fail is not giving an accurate representation of her abilities, just focusing on her disabilities.
I plan to take this as far as I can, but it would really help to understand if a) any other parents have faced this issue and overcome it or b) what reasonable adjustments have been made for other children with disabilities/learning difficulties to enable them to take the this or other school tests?
A reasonable adjustment in my mind would be allowing me to sit with her whilst she takes the test so she can read the answers to me, whilst video recording the test to prove I am not assisting her in any way. (She is quite happy for me to record her reading her school books and send this to her teacher so they can assess her reading, and this would mitigate any option for ‘cheating’).
Appreciate any advice or suggestions you may have, thank you :)