I have had lots of help on here from wise MN'ers and I am hoping someone can shed some light on this.
DS has numerous diagnoses including ASC, SPD, ADHD, PDA and dyspraxia. He is currently failing spectacularly in Y1 of a mainstream school. He has had EHCP since age 3.
We recently had an annual review meeting and it was agreed that the current mainstream school cannot meet his needs. I have chosen an independent specialist school which is local to us and specialises in children with a similar profile to DS. The alternative LA schools were for children with "LD's (including autism)" and had 0% of children meeting their targets in English and Maths. DS has a normal IQ and is a maths whizz, but his various SEN mean he cannot sit in a class and is liable to be violent.
Everyone at the meeting agreed - including the LA representative - that the independent school was the best choice. I suggested that we name it on the EHCP in that case. LA woman said nothing, teacher said that we should just draft the EHCP in a way that meant the chosen school was the only realistic choice.
If we all agree, why can't I name my preferred school? That would mean they have to accommodate him, if I understand correctly? Can I push for this?
I understand the next stage is for it to go to a LA Panel, who will likely refuse the funding, and then it will be a Tribunal, so I am prepared for this. IPSEA does not seem to have a clear answer so I was hoping someone with experience of this labyrinthine nightmare can help (please).
TIA.