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Fairley House

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Mikimotobaby · 22/02/2023 13:47

We would really appreciate to hear from parents who have first hand experience of the school; our Y4 daughter is mildly dyslexic she is a very nurturing school but despite all the additional specialist support we got at home she is struggling and very much behind; this has been deeply affecting her confidence and as parents we feel that we should change something before the idea that she is always the last one or that she is a ''forgetter'' will be too ingrained in her mind. We feel that perhaps she would benefit from learning is a school such Fairley House; any opinions?

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ML2244 · 06/03/2023 15:03

Hi
My child went for a taster 3 days last year and loved it.

Mikimotobaby · 08/03/2023 23:09

Hi, Thank you for your msg, really appreciated. May I ask why you decided to not go ahead with it after the taster? Was your child kind of confused when he went back to his school?

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ML2244 · 09/03/2023 11:21

Hi

Long reply alert!

My child didn't want to go back to their school, they said that whilst they would really miss their friends they preferred the pace of teaching at Fairley and the small class sizes.
In fact my kid brought some work home and I was totes emotional because I had never seen them write so much and use such varied vocabulary. Even those 3 days made a difference!

Our problem is that we can't afford the fees (which are not high given the staff teacher ratio and location and Blossom House charges twice that).
We are at secondary transfer stage (yr 7 next year) and we are trying to get our LA to name Fairley as our preferred school on my kids EHCP, however, it's very difficult because once the LA name it, they have to fund it plus transport (apparently transport is 40K per year!!!).

My kid has dyslexia, gross and fine motor delay, sensory processing problems and speech and language problems, but loves learning and is a wonderful semi stroppy tween like most year 6 kids. I have no experience of dyslexia as no one I know has a kid that has to work at the pace my kid does have to just to hover at mid to bottom of the class. Had I known about FH sooner I probably would have tried to get them in earlier (Y3/4) with a view to moving them to a local school once they were ready.

I think that the teaching they (FH) provide catches kids up. Downs sides are, it's in central London and because a lot of children travel they may not form the friendships like one does at a local school, sleep overs, parties etc. Also there's less of an emphasis on competitive sport - this suits kids with fine and gross motor delay (PE is a humiliating experience for my kid) who just need to enjoy and recognise the value of exercise.

Some LA primary's around the country have ARP's for kids with dyslexia (there's none in my borough). Also we use IDL, laptop at school, electronic dictionary at school (a massive battle to get these but once in place the teachers were amazed by our kids progress and the speed they could write). We have a great SEN tutor and we also use the Bond books (like SATS stuff) to repeat the learning and eventually my kid is able to retain it. But it's tiring as we both work F/T and long hours and to be Mom, Dad and teacher is hard work (as we know from the pandemic).

All the best with your search!

Mikimotobaby · 12/03/2023 23:36

This is really helpful, thank you for sharing your experience.
I hope you also eventually find a system that works well for your child and family!
All the best!

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Stuffragette · 05/04/2023 08:21

Hi, bit late to this post but….
my dd, 11, was been in state school local lovely primary since nursery. She lagged behind her peers by roughly 2 years. Socially and emotionally fine, but since been diagnosed dyslexic, dyspraxic and adhd. We moved her to Fairley House in September. Like previous post, seeing the work she was given and the approach, made me cry. She loves it. She comes home and does homework straight away, reads now, can finally do shoe laces! She won a school trophy end of term. She has never won a thing in her life. Although small classes, she has lovely friends. We are keeping her there for secondary, turning down place from Greycoats, which I love.

And also, pp, she has three children in her class with EHCPs and the boroughs pay for their fees. They had to get to the stage of legal, but FH are used to it. Do not back down. I work in an SEN school and less the bus fees, cost per head is not much less.

hope that helps. Feel free to ask anything else

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