Good morning,
This may sound daft but how do you know if your child should be be in a mainstream school with support or a special/specialist school?
I started another thread about nursery exclusion and received some very helpful advice. My concern is now related to responses I have received from nursery and a LA Send Advisor.
I don't feel like I can trust the LA to make the best decision but equally, I don't know what would be best either.
So the consensus seems to be that my son will receive an Autism and ADHD diagnosis - we are on the MDA pathway but waiting for assessments & appointments. He will be 4 in two months and his nursery have said they cannot cope without 1:1 support. This is the second nursery to say they cannot cope with him. Nursery have suggested the best place for him is mainstream school with (hopefully) 1:1 support. They have said his needs are not profound enough for a special school and there aren't any places (but have sort of wavered a bit on that in our last meeting with nursery and a special school outreach person). We've been to the SEN stay&play group run by the LA (that they keep pushing down our throats even though it is on a Monday morning and not compatible with working) and compared to the other children, my son does seem to be more able in certain respects e.g. speaking and wanting to interact. He does have enormous outbursts and cannot concentrate on anything for more than a couple of minutes even if you are helping him - especially if there is a lot going on around him. I honestly don't know how he will be in a class of 30.
When I spoke to the LA Send Advisor, she informed me that school isn't statutory until he is five and I shouldn't expect him to attend 9-3 until then (and even then maybe not was indicated). Won't that put him even further behind his peers though?
Should I look into a private EP to make sure we are making the best decision as to what sort of provision would be best?
Thank you very much.