First question is will the independent SS allow parents to self fund? Not all do.
Second question is can you afford it? Independent SS are expensive and the SEN support can cost a huge amount. What would you do if you self funded and lost the appeal? If you couldn’t self fund indefinitely it could be traumatic starting somewhere not to be able to continue.
Is it wholly independent or a s.41 independent? If s.41 independent it can be named against the school’s wishes and you don’t need an offer of a place.
You should appeal F as well as B&I.
If the provision is specified and quantified in F but not being provided you can enforce the provision. Email the Director of Children’s Services informing them of the situation and threatening judicial review. Often the threat works but if it doesn’t contact SOSSEN for help with a pre-action letter.
We called an early review and asked for a change of placement to several other mainstream primary schools but they all said they could not meet need.
If you now what an independent SS it’s not relevant, but unless wholly independent the LA must name your preference unless the LA can prove:
-The setting is unsuitable for the age, ability, aptitude or special educational needs (“SEN”) of the child or young person; or
-The attendance of the child or young person would be incompatible with the provision of efficient education for others; or
-The attendance of the child or young person would be incompatible with the efficient use of resources.
The bar to prove this is high, higher than many LAs admit. And unless the LA can prove one of the above they can, and must, name the school even if the school objects.