I am at a complete loss as to where to turn next regarding my Y8 child's secondary school. I apologise in advance for the length of the post.
My child has a diagnosis of ADHD and has been referred for an autism assessment at the school request. I believe to they may have ODD but they have not been assessed for this yet. The school acknowledge their SEN and claim to be willing to make reasonable adjustments, but the reality is that they do little to address their needs and focus entirely on disciplinary steps. I believe hmy child needs extra TA support in lessons, which the SENCO agrees with. But they refuse to provide support as they say my child is too intelligent so the school prioritise their funding to "less able" children ( I realise it sounds like I have made that up but two different members of the SLT have said this to me). Instead they agreed to apply for an EHCP and other local funding but are taking months to fill in the form's required for the assessment so this is going no where.
As a result of the lack of support my child has taken to avoiding lessons and being extremely late. This has all now become much worse recently following a poor Ofsted inspection as the school implemented a new rule whereby if a child is more that 10 mins late for a lesson they spend the rest of the day in the isolation room. My child has had only 2 days in lessons since this was implemented, and when I questioned the impact of this on SEN children I was told that it is my childs decision making rather than their SEN that result in this punishment. They refuse to acknowledge the their ADHD directly impacts the decision making.
As if this wasn't bad enough, the schools policy is for teachers to provide work for students to do in isolation (this is completely inadequate for a child that needs additional support in my opinion) but in practice this does not happen. My child receives maybe one or 2 of their subjects per day and not the work they are completing in class and so is now so far behind.
My complaints get listened to and completely ignored. I get told my child has to make more effort to help themselves and that if they just staying in lessons they wouldn't have any issues. Additionally I rarely get to speak to the SENCO, I have rang everyday for 2 weeks, she never answers the phone or responds to emails, I believe she has a completely unmanageable workload. They tell me they are providing support by getting a TA to turn up at the end of the lesson to escort my child to the next, but still refuse to put support in the lesson to address the cause of my child's reluctance to attend.
They did putting a TA in to for a couple of lessons, has great results and my child came home from school beaming about the work they had completed, it was then withdrawn without a reason being given.
This has had a terrible effect of my child's mental health and outlook, I believe the are sinking into depression, I asked for an educational psychologist assessment but was told the school do not have access to the LA educational psychology service (despite previously saying they did and knowing the names of individuals working in the service).
I have tried the governors route in response to a previous discrimination related to a fixed term exclusion and was told that as far as the governor's are concerns if there is no EHCP in place they do not consider the child to have SEN and that the governor's are not obligated to meet me or repo d to my concerns. The school is an academy so I believe the LA have little power.
Can anyone please tell me where I can turn to get the school to meet their legal duty to educate my child, I feel the doors are closed at every turn and despite all the advice telling me the school must do this or cannot do that, in practice no-one is holding them accountable.