I wasn’t clear about the last sentence. School was trying to say to me that if you sign up to a 3 year course at 18, it can be dropped after a year and you have to apply for funding every year.
I didn’t think that sounded right. But they seemed to steer me away from education. I now know to say he’s staying in education so thank you.
Thank you so much for going to the trouble with all the above.
you know what, I wanted to avoid the whole hoohaa I know is coming re the LA saying no to the placement and a tribunal so I blindly thought starting earlier might be the way to stop that, but as you’re saying you can’t finalise any of this till transfer year anyway.
I’ll collate that list from your link above.
I’ll have to google the college and the section 41 you mentioned because I don’t know.
interestingly you mention I shouldn’t show my hand too early. I thought by threatening the La of this possible Placement that might stir them into giving me more options I hadn’t considered. I don’t think that’s likely so I’ll take your advice and keep my mouth shut whilst researching the other options .
when it comes down to it, what I really need to weigh up is , if moving my son at 18 to a residential educational placement in new surroundings- a different part of the country , seeing me only at the end of term, for what I think is specialist AAC support / communication is worth all that upheaval. Hydrotherapy pools, OT, etc he’s had all of that for the last 10 years, .At 18, I wouldn’t’ move my son for those things alone.
I’m really only moving him to this college because it’s excellent at communication strategies.
he will go into residential at 18 regardless but what that looks like - it could be a supported living house with day college , in his surroundings he is used to, seeing me every weekend, starting his life as he means to go in, is it better to get him used to that set up?
i won’t know till I do the research, it feels like such a lonely time, having to see which fit would be better. I find I’m asking people I know who have a child l like mine a few years ahead , what are you doing? Then I feel enormous guilt when they say they’re
looking after them forever. But I know I cannot do that.
onwards and upwards, better get that excel spreadsheet up and running!