To say I am upset is an understatement! Please can someone advise me what to do next. I will try to keep emotion out of my post and remain factual, but I feel so very angry and disappointed for my ds and thoroughly let down by the education system.
My ds was diagnosed with Dyslexia in 2013. I moved house and the subsequent primary school were made aware. The 14 page report compiled by Dyslexia Action was given to them by me. In addition to this he is summer born.
In Year 6 I selected the secondary school I felt (through viewing schools, speaking with the ALS staff, looking at work completed by children already there) was best for him.
Secondary school started in Sept 2017 for my ds. I attended all parents evenings and school events and monitored my ds's progress closely.
At parents evenings I would ask about progress in relation to his Dyslexia. My ds was doing well up to around Yr9. Obviously all children have had the Covid situation and home learning to contend with too. For my ds I feel the home environment as opposed to school was further detrimental.
Fast forward to last October and I asked if my DS (direct email to his English teacher) would receive extra time in his exams ( mock exams looming) and I was told if an assessment in place, Yes he would. I believed the Dyslexia assessment report was on his file and had been referred to on an ongoing basis.
Bear with me please...
Sadly last November my Mum became ill and sadly passed away in December. This was obviously upsetting for myself and my ds, I am a lone parent and an only child. I have had to single handily sort out my late mother's affairs. My Dad sadly passed in 2020 and I had only just started to finish finalising his affairs.
The point I am making is that during the time of my ds's GCSEs (Yr9-end of Yr 11) I was preoccupied with the admin in relation to my Dad passing away, my Mum passing away and generally helping my ds and myself put one front in front of the other.
Whilst 'pre-occupied', my ds sat his exams and when I asked him if he'd been given extra time, he told me he hadn't. Come results day and the projected grades my son had been given had gone out of the window. In Maths and English he was awarded grade 3s where he was projected grade 5s. He achieved a grade 7 (A) in Art of which he was super pleased, as was I!
The morning after results day I contacted my ds's school to ask them to confirm whether he had been given support and extra time. His maths teacher responded and said he didn't know and to contact the exams office which I did. I also emailed the Head of the school but didn't get a reply until the first week of September.
My ds had a conditional offer to study Art at A Level at the Sixth Form. His Art teacher at school had advised him to do this based on his talent. This offer was withdrawn at his interview the day after results day as he had 3s and not the minimum grade 4s in Maths and English. I have never seen my son look so dejected. I had taken the Dyslexia Report with us and explained I was waiting on a reply from the schools exam office.
My son had to think on his feet what to do instead and so he opted for a vocational course - painting and decorating.
When the secondary school responded, they confirmed my ds had not been given extra time. They then said they did not know he had dyslexia and did not have the report on file as they had not been sent it by the primary school.
I was absolutely 'gob smacked' and so so angry! I attended a meeting with the vice principal with a copy of the assessment report and to say he had a hostile attitude would be an understatement. He asked me to point out where in the report it stated my ds has Dyslexia. I told him the entire report is stating he has dyslexia! He continued to state the school did not know and blamed the primary school for not sharing the information. After 5 mins of passing the blame, I asked (irrespective of allegedly not having the report) how my ds's Dyslexia had gone un noticed for 5 years by his teachers, and that it had been raised by me in emails and at parents evenings - no answer!
I then cut to the chase and asked that I wanted the school to contact the relevant exam boards and tell them what had happened. He brought a member of staff in from the exams office who looked at the assessment report. They confirmed it is in the report in black and white that my ds warrants extra time in exams and classroom support. He was extremely apologetic. Basically from the meeting the school appealed my ds's grades based on 'information coming to light after the exams'. It took 4 weeks for a decision to be made and the result was no change.
I am wanting to know how do I find out what went wrong?
Who is responsible?
I am going to officially complain about the secondary school and I also want to go back to both exam boards regarding my ds's maths and english grades and ask them to explain why there is no change in view of everything.
I'd be grateful for anyone on here that has experience in dealing with complaints to schools and exam boards in advising me of the best way to go about this. I cannot believe that my son has spent 11 years at school to be fobbed off over such an important matter of which the rest of his academic life and career depend on.
Thank you for reading all of this.