DD13 was diagnosed ASD end of Y6 after a hard slog in primary through all of juniors. School didn't see it as she's an expert masker and quite honestly, it was not a very inclusive school for any kind of additional needs.
Got through yr7 in new mainstream secondary with lots of bumps in the road but she was on SEN register there, there was a lot more understanding than she'd had at primary and thought we'd cracked it.
Well, it all fell to bits start of yr8. No covid measures in place then so too much moving around school, split from her safety net of a couple of friends as grouped for key subjects.
My dd should be in yr 9 now. She has not attended school for 12 months. The anxiety was crippling for her and I simply could not get her there anymore. I got the ball rolling getting an ehcp and with another long battle we have been issued a draft. Problem now is that because of her age all specialist places that seemed suitable that i wanted are full.
The council seem hell bent on her trying another mainstream. I just know she cannot cope with this.
So does this mean her school life and education is over. She is eager to get back to school, but one that is small and where she can be herself. It looks like such a school doesnt exist! Would love to hear anyone else's journey through this kind of hell and any advise.