DD2 aged 11 just had private assessment for dyslexia due to years of concerns over SPAG and being behind in reading. Complient hard working child now in top sets at average state comp due to sheer hard work. Very overlooked by teachers as she is well behaved (unlike ASD DD1 who is a human land mine).
Just shared report with school and so far no shits given by year head and SENCO. School has really good reputation for SEN and pastoral care so I'm disappointed. DD2 has been flagged as self harming (scratching large patches of skin off her hands) and having anxiety plus some complicated grief from a series of family bereavements. I would have thought it would be in the schools interests to acknowledge her dyslexia in order to reduce her anxiety. The school is up and coming and desperate for students who can get some good grades and I was assured kids like my DD with work ethic and potential would be supported.
I am expecting too much? What can I actually reasonably request in terms of support? We will now have to wait 9 months for full private assessment but surely the school can start putting things in place now? At least acknowledge her challenges and put some measures in place like where she sits, how work is communicated, help her with copying off the board which she struggles with.
After so many years of fighting for DD1 looks like I am going to have to fight again for DD2.