My yr10 daughter has ADHD, Severe Anxiety and POTs (auto nervous system disorder affecting blood pressure and includes daily headaches, chest pain and fatigue) and her psychiatrist and her neurologist recommended she get extra time in her exams - however her private school has chosen not to give this to her. The school's Head of SEN is also an educational psych so could test her if she wanted to and we also offered to pay privately for her to be tested but they have not taken us up on this. Contrastingly, I have similar disabilities to my daughter and as an adult was given extra time for these in my recent GCSEs. I spoke to SENDIAS and they said because my daughter's school is private they can choose to support her fully or not at all.
I would be grateful if anyone has any extra exam time stories they would be OK about sharing. I am trying to get a gauge whether its reasonable for me to go back to the school and ask them to reconsider. Thank you.