An EHCP would be via the LA you live in. In most circumstances it will name a school. However, unless the school is wholly independent the LA must name your preference unless they can prove:
-The setting is unsuitable for the age, ability, aptitude or special educational needs (“SEN”) of the child or young person; or
- The attendance of the child or young person would be incompatible with the provision of efficient education for others; or
- The attendance of the child or young person would be incompatible with the efficient use of resources.
Once a school is named in an EHCP the school must admit the child, so an EHCP helps with admission to MS as well as SS. The fact the school you want is in another LA doesn’t matter.
IPSEA have a model letter you can use to apply for an EHCNA. I would apply now, many parents have to appeal at least once during the process. If you don’t have a finalised EHCP by the admissions deadline next January you must make an application via the normal admissions round just in case even if an EHCNA is underway. Appeal if you are refused, the majority of appeals are upheld.
What provision the EHCP will include will be identified as part of the assessment. Provision in EHCPs is taken from the reports.
Have you asked the nursery to ask the area SENCO for advice? If DD receives DLA when she is 3 the nursery can apply for disability access funding. There’s also early years inclusion funding they can apply for if they need more funding to provide additional support.
So you are aware, a travel time of 45 minutes is considered acceptable for primary aged DC, although many do travel further.
Be careful with SENDIASS. Some are brilliant, but too many repeat the LA’s unlawful policies - you only have to read threads on MN to see this. They receive LA funding so aren’t completely independent and will ultimately toe the party line. IPSEA and SOSSEN are better.