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ADHD in boys. Signs?

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ItsMoiThymeToShine · 11/11/2021 17:07

DS is 10 and was diagnosed with ASD at age 5.

He has always been very active and on the go non stop. It now appears to be interfering with his normal life but I’m not sure if it’s something to be concerned about.

The school SEN teacher said he is fidgety and ever so slightly distruptive but not at the level they’d ever label a problem.

Lockdown learning was appalling! He could not sit and concentrate on his work. Ten minute tasks took an hour. It was very stressful for us both; asking him to sit still, stop drawing over the virtual screen etc . We both loathed it.
Homework is much of the same.

Signs:
Always moving, foot tapping or changing positions when watching a film together

Always touching things , spinning things and flipping things

Very boisterous and rough and sometimes appears impulsive

At school, he gets told off for talking multiple times in quick succession

At school , he gets told off for fiddling with things but he now has a sensory diet which has helped somewhat

He says he is often looking out of the window or not listening to the teacher talking

School say he has no trouble at all on focus or concentration which I do question . (His school are slightly useless in picking up HFA and were surprised when DS was diagnosed; many parents have had the same experience).

However he is doing very well in school academically. Is ADHD something to consider or does it seem unlikely?

OP posts:
oKoK65 · 22/12/2021 05:15

@ItsMoiThymeToShine
Hi saw your post so thought I'd answer in case you still need support. All those thinks could be adhd or could be part of autism. Is your son on Sen register or does he have a ehcp? What support is in place in school? Are you having meetings to discuss his academic levels and targets?
Home learning was a nightmare for most kids never mind those with additional needs. My son did four 15 mins a day interspersed with baking , garden, messy play etc. he's 6. I'd be concerned he's getting'told off' for talking. If he's struggling in class he needs support possibly some one to one or opportunity for sensory breaks. He shouldn't be getting told off for something he can't help doing.

oKoK65 · 22/12/2021 05:16

He may also benefit from having a fidget spinner or chewelry in clas to help him focus.

MindfulBear · 26/12/2021 02:02

Hi, has he had a recent OT assessment? Some of those issues could be adhd or asd or they could be due to imbalanced in the body.

We found OT super helpful.

Also have you tried an osteopath ?
Worth consideration.

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