My 11 year old has been home ed since year 2. Primary school was a total disaster and we ended up taking her out of school as she injuring herself.
We have been bounced around various doctors since then and now she had a “working diagnosis” of ASD and adhd.
We cant get an actual official diagnosis without school input but her paediatrician has told us she is confident with those diagnosis.
Anyway as she has got older i feel like i need help - i want her to go to a school. We saw the peadiatrician in july who wrote to the LA for us saying that our daughter would need extra help and that she behaves like in her words “hyperkinetic 8 year old” 
We applied a few months ago but were told we would have to apply for mainstream school first and basically have her fail at that. We applied for all the schools we can get to - i dont drive. We heard back today that no schools have places. They offered to try further away schools that we wouldn’t be able to get school buses to.
So they want her to get multiple buses then attend a mainstream year 7 class?
I am totally confused what i am supposed to do. I know she wont cope with the journey but i cant take her everyday it would be hours of travel and i have other children. I dont think its far enough away to qualify for any kind if extra transport but its way too far to walk and of course no direct buses.
I feel like our only option is to keep her home forever but that cant be right can it?