DD is 17yo and in Year 12. At a city college where they is no sense of real community or support, mainly due to lockdown and online learning.
She has got dyslexia and has slow processing speeds. She is also seeing a psychiatrist in a couple of weeks to talk about a possible ADHD diagnosis, emotional dysregulation, coping with stress etc etc - you get the picture.
She had her first Sociology assessment today, a paper that lasted 1hr. Bare in mine she never sat GCSE's this was her first 'exam' in timed conditions.
She is SO stressed. Knows what she wants to write, has great english when given enough time, but just cannot put it altogether under exam conditions.
She has 25% extra time, but what if that is not enough? Why oh why are these dc made to sit exams when their brains literally cannot do them. But given them an essay or something with no time limit, and they can do great.
Is there anything else she can do? She is convinced she is going to get kicked off the course (she's doing 2 A levels because she couldn't cope with 3) and has been told that if they don't pass, they're not allowed to continue. Cue more stress and crying and shouting and feeling fucking awful because she can't do what others find so easy. Ideally she wants to go to Uni to do fashion journalism and has found a course which only needs 96 UCAS points, 3 GCSE's and NO exams. But she may not even be able to get that.
It breaks my heart but I don't know how to help. Anyone else understand? 