My DD has an assessment for ASD and ADHD at the end of this month, paid privately by me. The school are in complete agreement with me about my concerns. She will be 9 in 3 months and is very far behind at school. I have asked several times about an EHCP but the SENco said she won't get one and that my DD needs to be atleast 2 academic years behind! To support her private assessment I requested where she is and they have said: reading below 7yrs, writing below 6yrs, spelling 0! And maths 7yrs 8months. She has also been screened for dyslexia which came back as significant. I asked her previous teacher how I can teach her and she said "she doesn't know how to teach my DD". At what point is an EHCP needed as I don't want her to fall further and further behind?