hello. firstly please forgive me still quite new so not sure which threads would be better suited to the catagories. firstly this is not stereotyping to be deliberate just thoughts and questions based on my experiences. i had a gf many years ago as a student who i later found out had aspergers syndrome. i loved her all the same it never bothered me but i was surprised. we were both into nightclub type music the more trance the better lol. now maybe if she had been into her music and i had been hugely into battleships or something i would have noticed a difference between us with her maybe not paying much attention to me but i didn't. now if things didn't go her way she did have a tendency to take it personally and get annoyed but i have known other people who are like that who are not sn. she enjoyed spa days, massages and because we were bf gf she never even minded me being tactile with her. it came to an end more because of overprotective family who only seemed to want our interactions to be at their house or at college. every time i tried to make some arrangements for her to come to mine some excuse eventually came up for us not to be able to do it. but my question is more if you have a dc with aspergerse or ASD could it actually have been so mild that you hardly noticed it? i admit to being quite ignorant of the topic and thought this would be a fantastic place to find out more