Home learning has given me much more insight into my children’s abilities. DS2 (9) learns in a very different way, and has a different skill set, to his siblings. I’m starting to wonder (again, I wondered when he was little then decided there was no issue) if he is dyslexic. Any thoughts on whether this is enough to look in to his further, and what else I should look out for, would be welcome. Issues as follows:
-He was really slow to learn to read, or even recognise his name. His P1 teacher did ? dyslexia but said it was too soon to tell.
-Aged about 7 reading seemed to “click”, and he is now in the 2nd or 3rd reading group out of 6 groups in his class - so a bit above average (does this rule out dyslexia?).
-He is still a reluctant reader, although loves stories and being read to, audible and story CDs.
-His writing is messy and he seems slow (although school would say average). He has spent half of lockdown making up and acting out plays with his sister, but struggles with handwritten creative writing. Does much better on a laptop.
-His spelling is phonetic and inconsistent (and overall worse than his 5 year old sister’s), despite practise.
-He still reverses some numbers (5, 2, 3) and occasionally letters despite us having gone over this again and again.
-He absolutely cannot learn things like times tables, however often we go over them (yet is in the top maths group, although has noticeably struggled with word problems over lockdown).
-Verbally he is bright as a button, he is quick, arty (draws really well), is very creative and loves making things. He gets very frustrated with traditional academic work but will do his own things in his own way unprompted (write scripts, make up little fact books).
Does this sound enough to warrant looking in to this a bit more? Or might he just be very different to his siblings who have more traditionally academic tendencies? He’s a lovely boy, sociable and fun and has been fantastic company over lockdown, but his brain is definitely wired differently to mine and our other children’s, and he is clearly happy not to have to go to school! My eldest DC has DCD (but is not dyslexic) and I don’t see the organisational issues which he has in DS2 (who is quite good at personal organisation).