Hello all,
Battle weary mother here.
My ASD child (14 - year9) “attends” a grammar school. He is academically very bright. However, his mental health (low mood and anxiety) have now hit an all time low. We have had three running away from home sessions, two calling the police because he can’t keep himself safe and two nights in hospital with a mental health crisis. he has been excluded twice (FT) in the last year and has numerous detentions for failing to be organised / homework issues etc.
He was signed off as medically unfit in Dec 2019 and hasn’t returned since.
The school has not followed the graduated approach and struggle to even understand his difficulties.
County have just confirmed that they will not asses him (2 weeks after the 6 week deadline).
He is not in school and school have no way of writing a support plan. He is not to go back until that Support plan is in place.
He has a concerned GP, social worker and we are currently battling, also, with CAMHS.
Any help or advice or experience would be greatly appreciated.. I have contacted the mediation service today and will go through to tribunal if I have to.
But I feel we are very much between a rock and a hard place.
Thanks for reading