My son has diagnosis of ASD, severe anxiety and sleep disorder. He presents as PDA. So he is difficult to manage or teach if you like.
From the age of 4yrs we have had endless problems with schools, staff and practitioners. If it’s not hard enough bringing up a child with such a different way of thinking to my own, I have had to learn his way to help him and myself have some happiness in our day to day lives.
I then have the battles with the education system.
My son is gifted intellectually. He has missed 5years plus of vital education.
The education system has failed us massively. I’m tired of fighting but part of me wants to unleash fury over his most recent school. Cambian Somerset school is an autism based school that claims to deliver therapeutic education to a wide range of needs.
It does not. I found out that the staff have no training in autism, anxiety, pda, adhd or any other diagnosis. Some have training they acquired at previous employment, some have personal experience but they are not trained at cambian.
Also they are teaching subjects they are not qualified in, I’m told this is acceptable in private schools. As long as the head agrees they are capable. So qualified PE teachers are teaching my autistic son, geography, maths, history, IT and IT related lessons. He struggles to learn by the standard mainstream curriculum and needs to be taught in a PDA, autism styled way. These teachers are not even qualified to teach these subjects so how is my son going to pass his GCSE?
Just before the Easter break a staff member asked my son to fight him in an altercation at school. My son was heightened and had self harmed, this staff member thought it appropriate to challenge my son for a fight? He is still at work now and my son is at home. How do these schools get away with this? Why can’t I get any help? They only care about his funding
They don’t even care that he is not in school.
I’ve watched staff laughing at a student aggressively bullying a vulnerable autistic student, I reported it and their solution was to move parents away from the school when collecting, so we can’t observe staff being out of line.
I’m hoping my son will have more Success in college, I’ll be able to support him more there but it’s just not right. He should be able to go to school.