Hi,
My son is only in year 4 but I know I have some big decisions to make regarding secondary schools. I'm setting some meetings up with 4 different secondary schools after the easter hols.
I'm just wanting some advice as some I've been given seems to be conflicting.
My son is autistic and has an ehcp.
Paediatric dr told me in a recent appointment that he cannot go to any school, it's a long complicated process and I need to get the ball rolling as there are not many spaces in the sen units attached to the schools. I mentioned a specialist school I was hoping my son could attend but she told me no as my son is too advanced. Bearing in mind she only sees him once a year for a 10 min appointment. She said the best school for him would be the one I've heard gets not the best reviews.
The autism specialist who deals with my son through the council (comes to all ehcp meetings etc) told me the special needs school could be an option however there are others I need to look at which is fair enough. I know I need to look at them all.
A mum at ds swimming class told me yesterday that any secondary school regardless of wether they are a special needs school or not has to take the child as long as there is an ehcp in place. Her son has Down syndrome and he starts in September.
I know I have to view all schools but 2 of them I already know won't really be suitable. They are excelllent schools academically but children who attend with special needs tend to be left behind. I've asked many parents who all say they wish they had chosen other schools. I'm going to have a good look round them anyway - probably more than once but I'm not getting my hopes up for these schools.
Which leaves me with 2 schools. The special needs one and another one which may be quite promising. It's new with a special needs unit attached. The special needs school is close to where we live. The other one is miles away but I'm guessing he would get a private taxi?
My son is way behind academically. In maths he is doing year 1 work. Everything else all depends on if he is interested in the subject. He can read very well, his writing is getting there but there's no punctuation. He will only write about his interests which are Thomas the tank, Batman and our dog lol. He absolutely loves writing stories but these are ones he already knows. For example he will write a full episode of Thomas the tank that he's seen on tv. On a good day, he may write about whatever the subject is. I just don't see him being able to do lessons and the actual work in a mainstream secondary school.
I know every area is different and I don't expect any guaranteed answers here but I know I need to make a start and I want the best for my son.
Basically, my question is, can you attend any school as long as an ehcp is in place? Deep down I feel the special needs school is best but I obviously know I haven't even looked at any yet. I just feel I would have a battle on my hands to get him a place.
Thanks