Hi Heartofhome,
I totally understand the confusion that you are feeling & although I can't comment specifically, because I haven't seen your daughters EP assessment, I can provide some general advice.
One option worth considering is employing a private specialist teacher to tutor your child at home. A specialist teacher will be able to review the EP report and draw up a program to support your daughters specific needs. If you look on the PATOSS website you will find a list of approved specialist teachers.
If you are looking to provide support yourself at home, there are various options open to you which can seem overwhelming. I know of some parents who have successfully used toe by toe to help develop spelling skills, and others who have struggled with it.
Multi-sensory teaching strategies are highly recommended for teaching dyslexic children. So a good starting place could be to work out your daughters preferred way of learning (visual, auditory, kinaesthetic) as she is more likely to respond positively to & recall information presented in a way that appeals to her.
You could have a look at the Smart kids website -www.smartkids.co.uk as they have various resources which may help.
Consistency is also important,. Regular, short lessons which build skills over time, with plenty of opportunities for reviewing skills and practising them over and over to help them 'stick'.
Hope this helps