Hi all, DS is 4 (summer birthday). He started school in September and loves it, which was a huge relief. But as time has gone on he hadn't made the progress in phonics or writing that his teacher expects. He is a clever little chap, interested in everything and always full of good questions. He has a very scientific mind (just like his parents), his reading and writing abilities obviously don't match his comprehension or thinking levels. Maths is going okay as long as you don't ask him to write anything down. At consultations a couple of weeks ago we were discussing this and I mentioned that I have an extremely family history of dyslexia (and other assorted associated conditions), everyone on my mum's side as far as we can track back plus my dad. Both me and my brother were diagnosed in the late 80s. So this is no surprise to me! DH is also probably dyspraxic although he's never been formally diagnosed.
The school have been brilliant, he's now getting extra small group "over learning" sessions with his class TA and he's done an informal assessment with the SENCO and she agrees there is something there. Now I know that given space and time DS will find his own way through this with support from us and school (because the rest of us have), which he is getting, but my question is will he get the space and time to do it? I'm worried about assessments and in particular Y2 SATS in a couple of years. Do they make adjustments for kids with SEN? And if they do, then does the child need a formal diagnosis in place for that to happen? Because if so then we probably need to be getting going knowing the levels of red tape that could be involved right? I'm unsure what I can do, to best support and protect him. He's already feeling anxious about reading and doesn't want to do it. We've decided that he doesn't have to read at home if he doesn't want to, but we've surrounded him in books about stuff he's interested in and we read to him a lot, I suppose I want him to see the point of learning to read! Sorry this is a bit of annunstructured mess....basically help!