Hi Wads
DS1 is 9 and has always had problems with pencil skills. He is left handed dyslexic with dyspraxic traits. We use yorropens to help him and have done lots of exercises with putty, threading, etc, fine motor skills stuff.
School have always said about him using a laptop when he gets older, touch typing etc... however I have been taking him to private lessons which use the spaulding method and they have taught him a different way of doing his handwriting, it has really helped his flow and he now has lovely handwriting.
It is still very slow and difficult, but the more he practises the easier it becomes.
I have now decided that I will not teach him to touch type for at least another year, as I think he does need to be able to write and his spaulding teacher (who is also a speach and language therapist) believes that the action of physically writing actually helps in learning spellings, as you physically feel the words so to speak.
I do think laptops/computers are a great idea, as I know DS1 gets really frustrated at not being able to get things down on paper, but I also know that he does not get very much access to the computer at school. They did start to try and teach a small group touch typing but it didn't really work and they gave up.
I hope you don't think I am being unhelpful as that is not my intention, it's just that I have been surprised by how much DS has achieved, something I would not have expected when he was 6 and I am glad that we have kept on trying with the writing skills.