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Dyslexic es or not

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3andnomore · 03/11/2006 21:41

Hm, well, es has been behind from day one in his school work, and welll, I suppose he is not academically minded....anyway, I have looked into different things and printed them of to show the teachers and otehr professionals in the past and well, not much notice was taken and people just tended to say, he is a boy it will pick up!
And yes it has picked up, indeed, no doubt about that!
Anyway, he used to be under ENT because his reception teacher thaught there mihgt be something wrong with teh hearing...(something I wondered about, as he learned to speak really late and I felt he couldn't understand me well, which was put down to us trying to raise him bilingual german-english, so, I stopped that, and hey he started speaking more, clearer and better), then I wondered about this condition, where their hearing is fine, but they can't actually understand well because their brain can't decode the information...can't remember anymore what that is called now....and that was poopooed...fair enough)...I have also questioned them about Dyslexia, and was poopooed, well, es is now 10 and we just had a parent evening...well, when es started the school there last year beginning of term his reading was assessed to be at age 4 (he was 9 at the tine)and spelling about the sameand maths/numeracy was below, but he has picked up some, and is now reading age 6+ etc...but obvioulsy still below his age group!
Well, we will do much more work with him now, seeing that he will start Secondary school next year, but his teacher mentioned that she would like him to be assessed for dyslexia and also that she would like to get him a "scripeter" (?) for the Sats, as she feels that he can describe very well and has in speach a good way and is creative, but that his reading spelling, writing abilities are holding him back...and I am fine with all that, but then it's all new to us...is there anything we should know? Any hints and tips????

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MrsForgetful · 03/11/2006 22:00

a scripter should be someone who does his writing for him...sometimes called a scribe.

my son is not dyslexic...so my advice is a bit general...my son has ADHD and Aspergers syndrome and undiagnosed dyspraxia... but alot in common with dyslexia.

some other similarities may be finding it hard to copy from whiteboard...he may lose his place and have to keep starting at top .

he may also have a very heavy pencil grip- white knuckles as he presses...so he will physically ache.

one thing i learnt is that dyslexia is not just about reading and writing...he may struggle with sequencing (ie doing several tasks in the correct order...or even at all- 1 step at a time is best)this can even affect dressing- my son yesterday was wearing 3 pairs of boxer shorts...he had forgotten to take the others off!!! He also frequently puts several pairs of socks on...!!!!
he may have poor concept of time-

he may like routine and structure to his life...and find it difficult to 'move on ' from one activity to another quickly...or from room to room as he goes to secondary.

colour coding things works well... so as he gets older- goes to secondary...you can colourcode his timetable so that it corresponds with his exercise books.

he may struggle with things that involve hand eye cordination- tying laces etc.

may not enjoy doing puzzles etc

and may even get angry due to frustrations.

my neighbours son is dyslexic...and he even got so upset with his work at school that he kept ripping out pages he made mistakes on

so...hope some of this is relavent... somone who really understands dyslexia will be along...

MrsForgetful · 03/11/2006 22:06

by the way my son is 13 next month.

his writing problems are that of letter formation and spacing words...he tends to print everything and no spaces between words.

he now uses a laptop computer at school that we provided.

your son may have a very precise letter formation...and in doing so...by the time he has formed the letter...his brain has lost the word he was writing.Alot of dyslexic children get missed cos their writing is so neat...some teachers still expect the writing to be poor...thats why i mentioned the heavy pencil grip too...as again in forming precise letters...and pressing hard...it is physically AND emotionally draining.

(whereas my son writes it all down at lightening speed...letters very badly formed)

3andnomore · 04/11/2006 13:15

Thank you for your reply Mrs Forgetful!

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