hi i was wondering if some can give me some advice please ? over the weekend we was at a bbq i got chatting to a lady there and she was saying her daughter has mild autism me and my husband have thought for a while now she has a lot of signs of this ie: terrible tantrums , hurting herself,very very shy, not good with change,cant stand labels in clothing,avoids eye contact,very sesitive to smell and noise,she flys off the handle at the smallest thing the whole house has to walk on eggshells around in fear of her going crazy , she is seeing a speech therapist next month as she talks quite baby like also if we are doing something ie the dentist we have to keep reminding her whats happenening becuase she will go nuts she is our middle dd we have a ds whos 8 and a dd whos 2 we are at the end of our tether with what to do for her we love her dearly buts shes such hard work, has anyone got any advice the can share with my or there opinions pls xx