Hey, just want to rant a little. So I've been married almost 4 years, my husband is an only son with 4 sister. I said I'd see how it is livong with parents but I realised very quickly it's difficult living in someone's home that's been there's for 40 years. His mum has set ways which is fine as she's helpful also. But now that I have kids, almost 2 years old and a baby I'm struggling with not being able to run my home my way and openly. We are going to move out into a bigger property as we currently have 1 room and his parents have the other considerably bigger room. But his parents assume they'll be coming with us. Initially I thought it would be fine with a bigger property but his Dad has dementia which has gotten worse. Incontinence at night, mum helps him with daily activities, such as bathing, toiliet etc. His sisters barely have any input or visit them and expect their bro to stay with them forever eith his fam and take on the responsibility. Rather than we live separately and everyone visit. His mum always gets annoyed at her husband when he doesn't listen (deaf also) and results in her talking loud which I dislike. Atm it's fine as kids are younger but have told my husband it's unfair for my kids to see this, esp when the other grandkids visit half hour/hour once a month or every 2nd month. We have our own sitting room witj kids toys etc so we have our own lil space In the space as the kitchen is usually occupied by his mum and we always have to walk past them to access kitchen. Just wondering if anyone has been in similar situation. I've spoken about my concerns to hubby. I love his.parents but I get annoyed at them cause we're living with them. I wouldn't feel this way if we lived separately. How can I make him understand