Hi all, I hope you don't mind me posting this question as I'm not actually South Asian myself, but my husband is. Long story, but my MIL is in a very bad way after FIL passed away 18 months ago... And by that we are talking near-total mental breakdown and alcoholism. It's got to the stage where we desperately need some mental health (possibly psychiatric) and social support to navigate this as I'm feeling quite out of my depth. Does anyone know if there are any community associations for older South Asian folks in London, or support for alcohol abuse? My DH is an only child and MIL was extremely dependent on FIL. She is only in her 60s and I'm terrified she is going to drink herself to death. There are two issues really, one is the mental health piece and getting her sober, and the other is getting her to meet some friends of her own age (once she is sober...). She is incredibly demanding and needs near-constant attention although she is physically capable of living independently and getting public transport etc. DH and I have a young child and both work, and while we want to be there for her and support her her it's like throwing love into a black hole ... Nothing is ever enough if you see what I mean, so we need to set some boundaries so our family unit doesn't get submerged with MIL's wants and needs. Any suggestions would be SO welcome.
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Mental health support for elderly South Asians
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Olinguita · 06/02/2023 07:55
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