Can someone help me here please? Returned to SW for the millionth time but this time I no longer drink alcohol. Previously I've used syns for wine etc but I'm finding that I'm struggling to use my syns now and also my second HEA, and although I understand the concept, I'm struggling to rationalise that at the end of three decent meals I still 'have' to have more to make up the syns.
I've a lot to lose and I'm quite focused but I do wonder if I've got this all wrong. Any advice welcome.