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Help! She needs sleep so badly!

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loopyloo82 · 09/06/2010 15:43

Hi, me and 10 month old dd are in a bit of a pickle. She is a pretty crap sleeper and napper anyway, which is fine as I usually just go with it and she doesn't seem to need loads of sleep. But last week we had a holiday and got back really late on Sunday night and she refused to sleep in the car so had no sleep that night until past midnight, but still woke up at her usual 6.30 am the next day. Since then she has been getting more and more tired, as she will not nap and has been taking longer to fall asleep in the evening due to her overtiredness, but still waking up early.

The problem is, I have been working and working on getting her to nap since Monday, but she has not had a single nap of more than 30 mins and is usually waking up after 10-15 mins. But she desperately needs sleep. I have tried everything - today she has fallen asleep in the sling, the pushchair, fed to sleep and gone into cot, but every time woken up within 20 minutes. She is wired!

Please, does anyone have any ideas of how I can break this cycle of over-tiredness, and help her to stay asleep. When she wakes from a nap, she is immediately totally awake, so I can't resettle her, and she won't sleep again for another couple of hours then. Bless her, she is yawning and even has bags under her eyes, I want to help her . Any ideas would be greatly appreciated.

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countydurhamlass · 09/06/2010 18:22

is her room really dark even during the day? my ds wouldnt sleep and still won't (now 6) if its not really dark.

loopyloo82 · 10/06/2010 08:11

Thanks- I don't think this is the main problem but I'm willing to give anything a go (well, apart from anything that involves lots of crying!). I have been thinking in investing in some black out blinds, will do so today. Even if it helps a little bit, it's worth it at the moment; she got up at 5.30 am this morning! Argh!

Thanks for the idea

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seeker · 10/06/2010 08:19

Take her out in the car. Make yourself a picnic, take a book and your laptop, drive round until she goes to sleep, then park up somewhere quiet. I used to do this all the time with mine. I had a lot of lovely little naps in the car myself!

loopyloo82 · 10/06/2010 19:34

Thanks Seeker, sounds like a great idea and does usually work - unfortunately I don't have my own car! Should be buying one soon for return to work though so in the future I think that will be my main plan of attack!

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yankbabymum · 10/06/2010 20:23

You mentioned that she has fed to sleep, is this BF? If so as soon as she starts to wake up try feeding her again and see if it'll help her get back to sleep again. My DS is a lot younger but he's teething which is causing mayhem with his sleep. This seems to work but it does involve staying v nearby while she's sleeping.

Good luck!

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