DS2 is nearly one and is still sleeping in a cot in our room - most nights he wakes around 1-2am and I bring him into bed and feed him and he spends the rest of the night there.
DS1 moved into his own room at 9 months and I remember he slept better afterwards - I think we're disturbing DS2 when we come to bed and he's a rotten sleeper anyway so rationally I know he ought to be in his own room.
Various things have happened since he got old enough to move - we moved house, so I didn't want to put him in his own room until he'd settled into the new place, my mum has been diagnosed with a rare and incurable cancer so life has been a bit emotional to say the least, and DS2 has just started nursery, as I'm due back at work in May and really don't want to go, and I really miss him crawling around tugging on my trouser leg . Plus they're making redundancies so job is under threat as well.
So anyhow, all this means emotionally I'm having real trouble moving him - we've got the room all ready, it just needs me to do the final push, and I just can't do it.
Someone come and tell me I'm being daft - he needs his own room, it's not doing our marital life any good and I'm sure we'll all sleep better. So why can't I just do it?