Yes, this time around I've not been able to "sleep when they do" as DS dropped his nap not long after turning 2, and that's when we get some time together, whilst DD naps (sadly she's a short napper too so altho I use the time to sit on the sofa and read with DS thus giving myself a break, she's usually awake within 30-45 mins!) DS doesn't start pre-school until Sept, by which time hopefully all will be better - as well as getting a rest when I go back to work in a few weeks.
I really only do the basics of housework now, but still seem to spend my time sorting the washing in-between meals, clearing up food from the floor and nappies. At this stage it seems like you've just cleared up one meal and it's time for the next by the time you've managed to do one thing!
Ah well, I do remember things had got so much better by the time DS was 18mo, so I guess it's not long to go. If only I drank coffee! - have never liked either tea or coffee so can't rely on caffeine to help me through - instead I eat too much chocolate.
great idea about the mot sleeps, - not possible at the moment as stil BF DD at night (that's the main problem i think, it's crazy when you're too tired to change anything isn't it? - DH was off last week and we were really going to go for it with trying to reduce the night wakings, then both DCs full of cold and poorly, so couldn't do anything!)
thanks very much for the replies, I know deep down there's no wonder solution, but it just helps to hear from others who've also been there .
How sad is it that I was glad when it rained today so didn't have to go out in the garden and run around (even though I know when I actually get out I do feel better for it).