This is in the news again today, but I wonder why is it safer for a child to be in a cot in the parents room, than in a cot in another room with a monitor? My DS2 is 4 weeks and am thinking of putting him into his own room in the next month (DS1 was in his room at 1 month). We have the Angelcare monitor (which detects if breathing stops) so I can't see a problem. Can anyone enlighten me?