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help! 7wk old not sleeping

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hoochymama · 27/04/2009 16:46

we are having trouble getting our 7 wk old dd to sleep, last night we were up til 2.30am (which isn't unusual) and I can't do this for much longer!

We started to do a bedtime routine around a week ago, which worked a treat the first night and she was in bed by 7.30pm and (with a few nighttime feeds), we got up at 7am the next day. But since then it's all fallen apart. We'll do the bedtime wind down, and she'll get really sleepy, so we put her down, but within 20mins she's awake and squawking or crying. So we'll try and settle her, then try feeding her, but she usually falls asleep whilst nursing.

I try to feed her up in the evenings and make sure she has good naps during the day, and if it's getting late and she's still not settling, I'll just let her sleep on my lap in the lounge, rather than get overtired. We've also been co-sleeping sometimes if she's finding it hard to settle.

Am I 'making a rod for my back'? or is she just still too young to expect her to go to bed at 7pm? Is this normal? When will it end?!! Or are we being too inconsistent? Sorry for the rambling post! Please help!

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hoochymama · 27/04/2009 18:30

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Wheelybug · 27/04/2009 18:40

Hi Hoochymama - I have a 6.5 week old and she doesn't go to bed at 7. I'm not sure she would as she tends to cluster feed all evening - we usually get her to bed somewhere around 11 (occasionally 10.30, sometimes 12 if its a bad night ! She tends to have her best stretch of sleep when she first goes down so its suits me.

DD1 didn't go to sleep at 7 until she was 14 weeks - she was sleeping 12 hours at this point so it made sense to get her to sleep at 7 rather than 11.

Am not sure thats much help to you but just to say I wouldn't worry too much about getting her down at 7 although if she will go then that's great (and I am ).

hoochymama · 27/04/2009 18:47

thanks wheelybug, was starting to feel inadequate as I keep meeting mums with babies who go to bed at 7, was feeling quite jealous as well as they have an evening, well at least can cook and eat dinner. dh is ready to give up on trying to get her to bed at 7, think he might be right...

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nellie12 · 27/04/2009 18:56

Hoochymama, they,re not telling you that babs was up at 9, 12, and (assuming they do sleep through a bit) that they woke up to pass the dummy at 4,5, and 6. Relax it gets better...eventually.

hoochymama · 27/04/2009 19:10

thanks nellie, it's good to hear that it does get better, even if it is 'eventually'! but if she did sleep 9-12, i would be happy!

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StarlightMcKenzie · 27/04/2009 19:20

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