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Would it be unreasonable to chain DS down in his cot at night?

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MipPieMum · 23/04/2009 14:30

OK, so the title is deliberately provocative to catch your attention (sorry ) but does have a genuine point to it.... We have an odd problem, or at least one I haven't heard of before. Any thoughts would be most appreciated.

Our DS (17 months) has an unusual way of settling himself to sleep. He rolls his head hard from side to side. He does this when he's going to sleep and then periodically through the night as he moves into lighter sleep patterns. Although it's a bit weird, no problem so far (our doctor thinks he's simply making himself dizzy, and assures me that he can't do himself any damage).

However, the rolling head motion propels him up his cot until he hits the cot bars or the headboard, waking himself up. And he can't resettle himself to sleep because every time he tries to roll his head he just hits it again. Inevitably he cries, and leaving him is no good because he simply rolls his head more and so hits it harder, cue more tears. When we go to him, all he wants is to be shuffled back into the middle of the cot so he can settle again. He actually cries more if we pick him up, offer him a drink, etc.

This happens every night, often as many as half a dozen times.

I think our problem would be solved if we could just keep him from travelling around in his cot in his sleep. In all seriousness, does anyone have any suggestions short of chaining him down? Tucking him in with a sheet above his sleeping bag improves things a bit, as does propping up the top end of his cot on books (although we can't go any higher or he ends up as a sad crumpled little heap at the bottom end).

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PrettyCandles · 23/04/2009 14:34

Have you tried putting him to bed in a travel cot? Soft, stretchy netting sides.

PrettyCandles · 23/04/2009 14:34

BTW, seems a perfectly reasonable trhead title to me - I've oftened searched, unsuccessfully, for a humane staple-gun to use on my dcs.

lionheart · 23/04/2009 14:58

I've often thought a cot with a lid would be quite useful.

MipPieMum · 23/04/2009 15:34

He didn't like his travel cot bed at first because the bottom was so hard, but he's much happier now that we put a lovely soft duvet under the mattress! He's getting a bit long for it now though. He actually has a cot bed, and I was vaguely wondering about converting it from cot to bed and getting one of those guard-rails that are made from the same mesh netting as travel cots. But he seems very young still, and as he's so 'mobile' at night I'm not sure it's a good idea.

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wetwipesahoy · 23/04/2009 18:50

Would something like this be of use?

www.safetots.co.uk/Sleeping-Bags-and-Swaddle-Wraps/1109-634.htm

One bit goes round baby and the other tucks under mattress like a sheet would. Not sure if your LO might be too big?

chandellina · 23/04/2009 19:07

soft bumpers??

lou222 · 23/04/2009 19:59

have you been to see a cranial osteopath. My ds did this and she said it was because he had tight membranes and pain in his head ( i think thats what she said, along those lines anyway)
He still does it a little bit exactly as you've described but not as much as he used to , she told me this is because it has now become a habit.
cranial osteotherapy is fab anyway so maybe worth a go?

gingerjack · 23/04/2009 20:41

Our ds did this, we started laying him on his tummy near the top of the cot in a gro bag and put a rolled up blanket and soft toys across the top of the cot. He was about 8 months at the time and it made a big difference to him. Easier for them to settle and harder to toss your head about too!

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