Hi - my ds, 19 weeks, basically never cries except at bedtime. Our routine is bath, pjs, then bf, rocked and into his cot, sometimes he stays asleep, sometimes I give him a dummy which seems to help him to sleep... The screamy crying often starts after the bath, he's soothed by the bf (and more or less falls asleep), then starts again when I attempt to put him down. I've tried earlier and later naps, starting bedtime earlier and later just in case he's over / under tired. Tonight was just horrible - as soon as he realised he was in his cot he screamed as if I'd hurt him! I hate the idea that bedtime has become a stressful time for both of us. The weird thing is that his sleep has actually improved lately, and when he wakes in the night for a feed he can self-settle afterwards. Tonight I calmed him down enough for him stop crying, left the room to get a tissue and breathe a bit, and he fell asleep! Sorry for the long post - but what I am doing wrong?