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Transfer to bed from cot - a disaster! HELP!!

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bristols · 01/12/2008 19:21

We put DS (2.2 yo) into a bed last weekend because he was climbing out of his cot. He was absolutely fine for the first two nights and stayed there all night. That was soon to change....

He now gets up every night sometime between 1 and 2am. I don't know what to do for the best to get him to settle again quickly or to not get up in the first place.

We have put a stair gate on his door but I'm not convinced that that was the right thing to do. He just stands there screaming and getting himself into a state which probably makes it harder for him to settle. I usually go to him, put him in his bed and stay with him until he sleeps. However, the amount of time it takes for him to settle this way is getting longer and longer and I know I'm starting bad habits.

Prior to us taking the sides of his cot, he was an absolute star at going to bed. He would go into his cot wide awake, say night night and stay there, sleeping until the morning.

Sorry this is long, but I am at the end of my tether with a lack of sleep (spent half of last night in tears ) and I could really do with some advice...

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bristols · 01/12/2008 19:22

BTW, last night it took four hours to settle him again...

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SleighGirl · 01/12/2008 19:25

Does he have a large bed guard on, perhaps he would like the securit of it?

perhaps he is unwell and that is why he is waking?

bristols · 01/12/2008 19:32

Yeah, he has a guard on the bed which is near enough the whole length of the bed. He's not poorly either. I think he comes into a light sleep at that time, realises he can get out and fancies a wander.

How can I stop it???

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Mellin · 01/12/2008 19:32

We moved dd (2) from cot to bed recently and probably had about 1 week of unsettled nights before she adjusted. We would go and resettle her at night because I didn't want her to be scared and hate her bed.

It will probably take him time to adjust to the new surrounds, just be consistent with whatever do at night and it will probably pass.

I was going to suggest the bedrail as well, makes it seem more like the cot and makes it much more difficult to get out.

SleighGirl · 01/12/2008 19:34

put him back in the cot - lol!

StarlightAssumptionMcKenzie · 01/12/2008 19:37

We leave his light on just enough for him (24 months) to see/read his books. He will take the off of his shelf and read them on his bed until he falls asleep again. There are no toys in his room!

bristols · 01/12/2008 19:40

Sleighgirl - if it wasn't so bloody complicated I'd have put the sides back on at 3 o'clock this morning!

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