Like many others I'm struggling with the whole night clothing thing now that it's getting colder. I'm completely paranoid about overheating etc but finding it all rather complicated.
So my main question is- I know it's not recommended, but why exactly shouldn't one put a light blanket over a lightweight grobag?
My son is 12 weeks old and since he likes to sleep spreadeagled out I don't swaddle him but have used openweave cotton cot blankets tucked in tightly under his arms to give him some feeling of 'night-time' and security. (He's a big baby - born at nearly 10lbs and now over 6.5 kilos so we had to move him out of his moses basket and into a bigger cot a while ago). I've started using a grobag (1.0 tog) now the weather is getting colder since he seemed to be getting a bit wakeful (usually not a bad sleeper). But 1.0 tog is perhaps a bit lightweight and also doesn't give that tucked-in feeling, so i want to put one of the light blankets over it. I'd prefer not to move him into a 2.5 tog since I'm frightened of him overheating and they're so 'locked in' to them if the temperature is too much
And also, is it just me, or is the small card thermometer thing that comes with grobags rather inaccurate? Ours reads at either 18 or 21 degrees, but the room feels pretty cold to me...
finally, is it ok for him to wear a sleepsuit with legs inside the grobag? The recommendations seem to say not, but I can't quite figure out why legs will make such a difference..
Sorry to ask such minutiae, but I dread something happening at night..