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Daytime naps, grobags and big beds -- can they fit together?

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Lorien · 23/01/2003 06:51

My ds is 26 months. Until 4 days ago he took an afternoon nap (between 90 minutes and 2 hours) every day without any stress. But on Monday he just didn't want to sleep in the afternoon. The same on Tuesday and Wednesday, with increasing levels of hysteria if I left him in his cot. Today (Thursday) I went through his wind down routine, put him in his cot and just shut the door. He screamed for 50 minutes but then went to sleep.
What I would like is some advice:
1: Do you think ds is just trying it on? He's dead tired all afternoon without his sleep, and has been trying to push the envelope in other ways too ("don't want to go to playgroup"; "don't want to eat dinner"; "don't want to have a bath" and last night he tried the same "don't want to go to bed" in the evening too.
2: When he doesn't want to go to bed, he starts by saying he wants to sleep in the big bed (a double bed next to his cot). I've tried putting him there, but he sleeps in a grobag, so he's not tucked in with sheets/blankets/duvet and he just gets up and starts jumping around. Has anyone made the transition to a bed with a grobag or the like? How do you do it?

All advice most gratefully received. Thanks, Lorien

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Bozza · 23/01/2003 09:31

Lorien I have no advice but can see me being in a pretty similar situation soon so you are not alone.

ghengis · 23/01/2003 11:40

DD is now 25 mths and decided she didn't want her cot a couple of months ago. The transition from cot to bed has been a nightmare but we seem to have turned a corner since she chose new bedding and stickers for the walls around the bed! We are trying to ensure she ONLY goes to sleep in her own bed at night but she still wakes up later on and wants to come into our bed.

We dropped the grobag when she moved to a bed for safety reasons and she hasn't missed them so far.

You have my sympathy!

Lorien · 23/01/2003 13:53

Genghis and Bozza, Thanks for your messages. I really don't want to take ds out of his cot (and many people I know kept their kids in cots till they were nearer three) but at the same time, hysterical crying isn't my idea of fun, and I don't know if I'm just being silly trying to keep him there....

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