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'Sleep in the same room until 6 months'

37 replies

Sazzles169 · 09/07/2026 18:57

This may be a daft question from an FTM with a newborn but how seriously are you taking this advice (always having someone in the same room as your sleeping baby until 6+ months) from the NHS for naps?

Do you, for example, set your babies under 6 months down for a nap then leave the room for 10 mins to shower etc? If so, or if you leave the room for longer, do you use a baby monitor?

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Iloveeverycat · 10/07/2026 08:25

merrymelody · 10/07/2026 04:23

This helicopter parenting is insane. I always left mine in their rooms with the door open.

Edited

So ignore the nhs and sids charities.

Orangelover · 10/07/2026 08:47

Iloveeverycat · 10/07/2026 08:23

Why couldn't you keep baby down until you went to bed.

I could and did do a couple of nights but we’re away with a large group of family and they’re quite noisy and keep waking poor baby up.

Peonies12 · 10/07/2026 08:53

merrymelody · 10/07/2026 04:23

This helicopter parenting is insane. I always left mine in their rooms with the door open.

Edited

helicopter parenting is definitely not doing something basic thats proven to keep your baby alive

LoafofSellotape · 10/07/2026 08:56

naptimeplease · 09/07/2026 19:13

For naps I used to just pop them in a bassinet in a quiet room on the same floor as me, and pop in and out as I did my jobs around the house. I didn't see the advise as having to literally watch them breath, just be aware of colour, position and breathing patterns overall.

Yes ,this.

Oliwiaa · 10/07/2026 12:15

merrymelody · 10/07/2026 04:23

This helicopter parenting is insane. I always left mine in their rooms with the door open.

Edited

Wanting your baby to survive is helicopter parenting now 😂

LandingLights · 10/07/2026 12:21

We lived in a tiny one-bedroom flat when DS was a baby, so there was nowhere else to be, really! He only really slept on me, anyway, so I just went with it.

fuggetaboutit · 10/07/2026 15:50

merrymelody · 10/07/2026 04:23

This helicopter parenting is insane. I always left mine in their rooms with the door open.

Edited

I'm glad that worked out well for you.

Urh · 13/07/2026 22:47

naptimeplease · 09/07/2026 19:13

For naps I used to just pop them in a bassinet in a quiet room on the same floor as me, and pop in and out as I did my jobs around the house. I didn't see the advise as having to literally watch them breath, just be aware of colour, position and breathing patterns overall.

It’s the baby who needs to hear you, not the other way round.

UncharteredWaters · 13/07/2026 23:00

One persons lounge could be larger in size than another person having them in the next room.
its down to personal circumstances really, and what your comfortable with.

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 13/07/2026 23:04

At night time in our room I’ll about 6 months. During the day nap in own room in cot from 2 months ish or would never sleep.

FWC2026 · 13/07/2026 23:09

merrymelody · 10/07/2026 04:23

This helicopter parenting is insane. I always left mine in their rooms with the door open.

Edited

It's not helicopter parenting. It's safe sleep guidelines. Things change over the decades when research is done and safer ways are found. This has prevented a lot of deaths from SIDS.

persikmeow · 13/07/2026 23:25

My baby got this sorted by never sleeping in the cot - guess you can’t go to a different room when a baby is asleep on you…

We also had a baby monitor which we still use (no longer cosleeping since 4).

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