1 year olds sleep is horrendous. I need help

[Elisabeth3468]

I am desperate . I feel like I'm being tortured. My daughter has always slept ok with bad phases but the last 3 weeks we've entered some new fresh hell.
its destroying my life, i can't work because i can just not function. I can't even walk into a room and remember why I went in.
she wakes around midnight- 1am and that's it, she's awake, till maybe 4 or 5. Then back to sleep till 6am. Then up for the day. Today she woke at 3.30am for the day and has been awake since.
she takes 1 nap a day and has since 9 months old. It's about 2-2.5 hours. She goes to bed around 7-8. I can't keep her up any longer because she's exhausted.
she used to sleep 7-6ish with one or two wakes for a feed which was fine.
she is cutting molars and already one is fully through. I've tried Calpol, ibuprofen, nothing makes a difference. Sometimes she's upset, sometimes she's just awake.
i am physically unwell because I'm getting no sleep. I keep getting infections.
I feel a shell of myself.
any advice ?

Daughter's sleep has gone horrendous again. Deffo seems to be related to teething. It's absolutely destroying me. I've had 2 hours sleep in the past 48 hours and worked a 10 hour shift yesterday . How are we meant to do this????

Stop breastfeeding

And take your mil up on her offer

It's not the breast feeding. She doesn't even want feeding. She feeds once before bed that's it. Sometimes 1 feed in the night. She's not feeding all night and sleeps in her cot. It would be easier if I could soothe her with feeding tbh! But she doesn't want it.

@Elisabeth3468 my little one was up every 2 hours crying when the molars were coming through. After that she was fine and she's back to sleeping now. She had separation anxiety for a bit but turns out she got croup which apparently really throws off their sleep for a while 🤷‍♀️. There's light at the end of the tunnel... When they are teenagers though 😂