Dd has been fed to sleep since birth, up until a couple of weeks ago. This hasn't been a problem, since she generally transferred easily to her cot and slept well, either all the way through, or with one or two wakes.
I'm now pregnant again so we wanted her dad to be able to do bedtimes and I'm also ready to be done breastfeeding, honestly. We expected a lot of resistance and at least a few horrendous nights, but her dad took her up to bed and cuddled her to sleep. She cried for about 20 minutes the first night and then not at all since then. She goes down brilliantly for him now.
We were patting ourselves on the back, thinking "wow, this was so easy" and "all that worry for nothing". It was great for a couple of nights but then she's suddenly almost impossible for me to put down for naps or bedtime. She'll take forever to fall asleep, like an hour or so, and then wake 30 seconds after her back touches the cot mattress. Or she'll just scream and won't go to sleep at all. I'm honestly losing it now. I'm failing to get her down for naps about 90% of the time and then she's a grumpy, tired, monster for the rest of the day.
She's also awake for hours at a time in the night and won't go down for either of us. She woke at 2am last night and is still up at 7am now.
I don't know what to do with her anymore. Grateful for any suggestions!