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HELP - 6 month dd crying every hour for the past 2 nights...teething??!!

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hollybobs · 03/06/2008 00:32

Ok - dd slept through the night from about 4 weeks old and was regularly sleeping around 11 hours at 3 months. Then at about 4 and a half months she started waking once in the night. This coincided with a chesty cough/cold thing so we put it down to illness. But as this eased off she was still waking. We thought maybe a growth spurt but she wouldn't take any more milk. We also began to wean her so thought maybe this was causing the problem - we were kind of hoping it would just settle down after a while.

... 6 weeks later and things just keep getting worse!! The cold/cough seems to ease off and then come back again every few days. Been to docs but he says not an infection so won't give her anything. She has been awful at night, taking at least an hour to settle & then again when she wakes up in the night (usually twice). We noticed at the weekend that her bottom 2 teeth are coming through and wonder if this could be the cause of all the problems? (can a cough be connected with teething?) The past 2 nights she has cried every hour - when I go in to her she isn't even awake, just crying. I give her the dummy, wait a couple of minutes til she drifts off & then take it out again - then that's it til the next hour. I've tried to give her milk/water when she's crying but she's not interested - just asleep! So why's she crying??!!

We had no sleep last night at all & I'm just sat watching tv downstairs tonight so dh can try get some sleep (he's in work at 4am). This is the worst I've felt since having dd - it's like we're going backwards and having a newborn again WE gave her some nurofen before bedtime but that hasn't made a difference. She was just crying again at 12am so I gave her some of those teething granules from boots (fingers crossed?!)

Please someone tell me they've experienced something similar and there is an end in sight...

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MissingMyHeels · 03/06/2008 00:38

No experience of 6mo but bumping for you, not having much fun with my 11 weeker at the minute. You should bump tomorrow for the daytime crowd.

Wishing you some sleep!

luvaduck · 03/06/2008 00:57

look here

almost identical to my post a few months back!

it is better now - just once a night but has taken months

i think i gave too many veges at the beginning of weaning (waking up started before weaning though) and therefore he decreased his milk - which has more calories, so was genuinely hungry in night. he was also too distracted in day to feed so got into habit of taking calories at night, then i got into habit of always feeding him.

anyway we have tried to cut down nigth feeds by a min each time (he is still bf, now 9 mo) and then he gave up the feed. gave carbs in eve predom, protein at lunch only.

i read somewhere that over 60% of babies who were sleeping through started waking up again at 6 months.

also ? separation anxiety - try and spend lots of close time in day. games of peekaboo etc

we have good days and bad days, and you think you've fixed it and then something else comes along to cause night waking - a cold, teeth etc. arrrghhh.
good luck!!!

gigglewitch · 03/06/2008 01:11

my dc all did this at 5 or 6mo, at which point i took it as a hint and started the good old baby rice. I think they get to a stage where they are just simply hungry, getting teeth adds to their misery, and then the teething thing seems to cause them runny noses (yes two of mine had coughs too) and upset tummies - as if they didn't have enough going on already. So you never know whether it is the weaning or the teething causing the trouble! keep track of what you are giving her through the day, I wrote heaps of little notes and diary things to see if there was anything to track, like how much milk they had had, what food and when, but TBH sometimes there just isn't something obvious. IMO teething really lowers their immunity to coughs and colds, but they do get over it.
Just sleep when you can to save your sanity, and I agree yes it feels just like having a newborn again - but just like then it will pass.
Baby massage worked for us, went on a course with the local sure start childrens centre [for free]. I think NCT do courses too. It really relaxes baby and you, and I still use it on my lot who are 7,4 and 2 to relax and calm them.

hollybobs · 03/06/2008 04:25

Thanks for the advice. We just had a 3 hour stretch since giving her the teething granules. Not much but definately better that 1 hour!

At the mo I am only giving dd fruit and veg as the hv advised until she is 6 months (only a few days to go) so maybe once I start with the carbs it might improve. Although these past couple of nights I'm not sure it's been a hunger thing as she hasn't taken milk when offered it anyway

Looks like she's off to my mums again today so I can catch up on some sleep!..

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hollybobs · 03/06/2008 10:54

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luvaduck · 03/06/2008 11:19

you could cut down the quantities of fruit and veg you give her so she takes more milk??? food is just for "fun" at the mo, you can slowly increase the quantities when she on carbs etc

the waking might just be habit now

have you tried patting etc to get her back to sleep???

could well be separation or teething

it will pass honest
just forget all tasks in the day and ctach up on sleep when she does

good luck
i know how it feels
(esp when every other baby in RL sleeps 7-7!)
x

gigglewitch · 03/06/2008 22:59

bumpity bump
hope you get some zzz's tonight

DisplacementActivity · 03/06/2008 23:17

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hollybobs · 04/06/2008 19:55

hi displacement, any improvements? we had a better night last night. She woke at 10pm so I gave her the dummy & then we didn't hear from her til 4.30am Gonna see what happens tonight.

tbh I've got no idea what's causing the disruption. someone said she might have just got to the age when she's developing so quickly & becoming so much more aware of things that her body's keeping her up.

She had more food (not milk) yesterday so wonder if that made the difference. Have given her the same again today so will keep you posted.

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