It is sucking the life out of me. He falls asleep so easily for my DH but it takes me easily 30-45 mins of bouncing, patting, shhhhing. I am tired, my body aches from holding him and where I can’t sit down. I am on maternity leave so I spend all day every day with him, 3 days a week I also look after my 4 year old so I am exhausted. I know it’s probably because I’m his person and his safe place, but surely there’s a way to make it easier. I have 3 days next week where I’m on my own because DH is away and I am dreading the evenings. Does anyone have any advice? I’m wondering if I need some more connection/bonding time with him somehow?